How to search a happy place?
First of all, you should ask yourself what is your happy place.
You can search for it in the comfort of your home or by traveling the whole world like the real heroes sometimes do. But to get there you need to take plenty of steps, reach high places and get rid of fear; fear will lead you nowhere!
The most important thing about a happy place is that nothing bad happens there and that everyone is very friendly with each other. A prison can be a happy place too because as they say no pain, no gain… But if someone is not doing well in jail, it is because he is not in the right place. So ask yourself if your happy place is doing something to you or you are doing something for it (or with it).
To get what you want, just take another look at yourself and think about this.
Some people think that you can reach a happy place through a head job or a boob job. But I believe that people, who want to get something for nothing, will never find happiness in their low-quality lives.
You should also look at the purpose of your life, which is not to get more and more things every day but to experience new emotions and stay with them longer by enjoying them all together with friends or loved ones.
The simplest way to search for a happy place is asking your heart about it… it will tell you how…maybe :-).
In my opinion, the easiest way is getting rid of yourself from time to time (this doesn’t mean that I advocate suicide) just deep breathing some fresh air while thinking about the beauty of living.
Don’t take your loved ones for granted, tell them that you love them and cherish every new day because it’s not guaranteed to any of us.
Now, let me give you some tips on how to search for a happy place: When you go out on weekends with friends or family, ask yourself if you are really enjoying their company or just being quiet because they want you to. If it is true then enjoy their presence as much as possible but if not do something else rather than stay there with people who don’t appreciate your worth.
If traveling seems too expensive for you now, why don’t you try going for a walk in the park sometimes? You will be surprised how many things you can discover near your home. If you are having a lot of trouble focusing on the beauty around you, try taking some time to read my book (it’s in paperback and eBook).
It’s not about where I am; it is about who I am with. So if they don’t make me happy then why spend time with them? That doesn’t mean that I don’t value friendship but it just shows that people change over time and so do their values. If you want to stay by someone’s side forever then be there for them when they really need or deserve you not just because they want something from you. And never forget that even your enemies deserve your respect!
Now, let us get back to our life…
“How to search a happy place?”
That’s simple, it is everywhere and nowhere. It depends on our perception of happiness and what we can do to achieve it. Traveling is good but I don’t prefer the destination only; the journey matters too :-).
So let us forget about how to search for a happy place at last because there are no rules for this mission unless you make them…
And if you do make some, be careful not to follow them all the time. Take care!
I don’t know why the media keeps organizing activities around common people like feminism and racism in order to keep these topics hot among young individuals who just want to express themselves freely by shaping their world as they wish without giving importance to what others say.
Our main mission in life is to save our feelings and express them in the best way possible, not just by having fun or getting some material stuff but also by loving ourselves enough for staying true to who we are without trying hard to be like someone else (even if they are richer, cooler or smarter).
As long as you feel good with yourself; there will be no problem with anyone else. Once you learn how important it is to be responsible with your own emotions, people around you won’t bother you anymore because they will know that you don’t need their attention in order to survive.
And most importantly:
Never lose hope! We all make mistakes that are part of the process. We should learn from our mistakes and try to avoid making them again because if we make mistakes repeatedly, we can’t claim that we don’t know better than others (even if they are not as educated as us).
I wish you all find your happy place before losing it…
The easiest way to search for a happy place is to get rid of yourself from time to time. Don’t take your loved ones for granted, tell them that you love them and cherish every new day because it’s not guaranteed to any of us.
When you go out on weekends with friends or family, ask yourself if you are really enjoying their company or just being quiet because they want you to. If it is true then enjoy their presence as much as possible but if not do something else rather than stay there with people who don’t appreciate your worth.